How To Make Long Distance Relationships Last
One of the challenges of international dating is long-distance communication. But this should not be a reason to fall out of love.
Surviving a long-distance relationship is never an easy feat. Being away from each other for long stretches of time is a rather tough and demanding endeavor.
It’s no secret that prolonged physical absence is certainly not healthy for any romantic relationship. While the advent of modern technology has allowed us to foster and maintain relationships amidst the distance, still nothing can ever replace physical touch.
It is normal for long-distance couples to go through a turbulent phase in their relationship. So if you think your relationship is at the brink of falling apart, here are some tips that will help you keep your relationship afloat:
- Communication and transparency is key.
- Take a break if you must.
- Remember what made you fall in love.
- Do not let intimacy and romance die.
- Just stay the course.
The only way to somehow compensate physical absence is constant communication. Talk as often as you can, that way you can at least hear each other’s voice and see each other’s faces even if it’s just through a computer a smartphone screen.
It is also important not to keep any secrets from each other. If there’s something bothering either of you, it’s always best to air it out on each other. Remember that one harmless lie breeds more lies.
It’s ok to be tired. All of us has limitations of our own. But what’s not ok is giving up. If you think that the problem or argument is too big to be resolved in one sitting, take a step back and let it cool for a while. Take this as an opportunity to cool your head and think straight.
Ask for space if you must but do not ever call it quits. Taking a break and breaking up isn’t synonymous.
Sometimes when we are at the heat of the moment and all kinds of emotions are running through our brain all at once, we tend to make rash decisions that we end up regretting. So if you ever find yourself in such a situation think back to your happy memories together and ask yourself if you’re willing to throw it all away all for a petty fight.
If you think that intimacy and romance require physical touch, you’d be wrong. Even if you’re worlds apart, you can still be intimate with each other.
Even as simple as complimenting her or noticing her new hair can go a long way. Reading each other love letters can also keep the romance in your relationship alive.
Like all things in life, international dating comes with its own set of challenges. But if you look at it with a positive perspective, the physical distance can actually make your relationship stronger. It’ll be a bond founded on trust and genuine love. Remember that a love that survives amidst the distance is also likely to withstand the test of time.
A long-distance relationship is just one of the possibilities you need to embrace if you’re truly eager in marrying a foreigner. But considering the kind of happiness it can potentially bring to your life, enduring the distance is just a small price to pay.
